Newsletters & Sermons
July 2004
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Rummage Sale Registers Success
An enormous
thanks to Kathy Vaught and her crew for yet another great UUFD Rummage
Sale (the 14th). This year, we netted more than $1,100, which will
be used for expenses our Fellowship incurs in the coming year. The
help of many made for a phenomenal sale. Of special note were the
folks who stayed after the Memorial Day Service and helped bring
items from the attic, set up tables, unbox and sort. The help of
those who contributed, worked the sale and cleaned up is much appreciated.
Moving or cleaning out?
If you find items for next year's June rummage sale as you sort
through your overcrowded basements, garages and closets, box them
up and store them or bring them to the Fellowship.
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Greetings from your Prez, by Marge
Evans
Bouquets
to Kathy Vaught for organizing and running another fantastic rummage
sale. Bouquets to Vern for all his picking up and toting. And bouquets
to all who helped in so many ways! Did Mark say $11,10.05!! Wow!
"Next-day"
bouquets go to all who helped on our annual "Cleanup Day."
Bouquets
to Terry Hogg, who took on our front garden, which has been needing
TLC. Darwin and his Building & Grounds team did a fine job.
Many hands made the work a "play day," and I'm proud to
be a part of UUFD.
We are planning
another "FUNdraiser" to help us with our visionary budget.
"Books, Bites and Botanicals" is coming Saturday, Oct.
16. We picture a time for folks to browse through the "good"
books we'll have to offer, while they listen to good music from
our new sound system; to nibble and sip for free, but then buy tasty
treats to take home with the pretty plant that will brighten their
home over the winter.
Perhaps
you would like to expand on this vision! Sandy Dattoli has agreed
to chair this event, and Vern Thistlethwaite, Jennifer Gardner and
Anne Reeser also have volunteered, so you'll be in good company!
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In
John's Words
Last Tuesday
during office hours, I had been asked by one of our members, Lois
Worley, to help with the planning of a memorial service at the Fellowship.
Our meeting was to plan her own memorial service, and it is with
Lois' permission I write this column.
I considered
it remarkably thoughtful that someone would want to design their
own memorial service; so much so it has inspired me to do the same.
I've come
to see that pre-planning one's own memorial service is a very considerate
and loving act. It is one of those final gifts one gives to a grieving
extended family and friends. It eliminates any guesswork as to what
is appropriate to a person's life. It makes easier those
difficult and often uninformed choices survivors are often forced
to make unexpectedly. And it certainly lessens the burden on the
one officiating, who may not have known the person's wishes regarding
such sensitive and important matters. Yes, in so many ways it is
a most thoughtful and considerate gift.
Many may
not find it easy discussing such things as their memorial. As Lois
and I sat in the church office that afternoon I could sense those
expected emotions arising as tears welled up . her voice gave way.
she choked as she spoke. For me as well, it was deeply moving. As
we moved through the words of the service, I could sense her relief
and a kind of burden gradually being lifted. What was on the other
side was a sense of joy and completion. It was simply a magnificent
moment.
The service
Lois selected seemed just the right words for her. She found them
in a Skinner House book I had given her titled: "In Memoriam:
A Guide to Modern Funeral and Memorial Services" by Edward
Searls, a UU minister. The particular service she had chosen originated
from a Native American tradition and was called "Circles Within
Circles." It adapted the medicine wheel concept with contemporary
spirituality and conveyed what
needed to be said for her. It was true to the life she was living
and her love a Nature and years of volunteering at the Rock Springs
Center here in Decatur.
So I invite
you to consider designing your own memorial service. If not with
me, then with another. To do so would be for me to deeply respect
your own worth and dignity inherent as an individual. It would honor
your conscience in matters of life, death and meaning.
As your
minister, I would consider it a privilege and responsibility to
respond to your request with care, sensitivity and love. For us
both to know what words would truthfully speak your deepest beliefs
would make for a service that would be at once honest as well as
honoring of the person we love.
Please
feel free to call upon me at any time.
Faithfully yours,
John
Office hours
Reverend's office hours will be Tuesday afternoons, from 1- 5 p.m.,
except on July 6.
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Joys
& Concerns
Happy birthday
to ...
Linda Shroyer - July 6
John Hays - July 21
Ron Shafer - July 25
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Dollarsense
A special
thanks to Vicky and Randi Clark for their donation of a gas stove
for the kitchen and to Ryan Raleigh for helping Mark Sorensen with
the installation. Pledgers: Please mark on your checks in July whether
donation is for an old 2003-2004 pledge or new 2004-2005 pledge.
Fellowship expenses average $4000 per month. Members and friends
may make a tax-deductible donation of money, stocks or property
to the Trust at any time of the year. If interested, please contact
Ken Robertson. Much thanks to Darwin Shroyer for coordinating the
replacement of our #2 air conditioner unit to cool our central pod.
The cost of this will come from our UUFD Trust Fund. Thanks to Darwin
and Eric Devore for replacing and repairing damaged wood siding
on the Fellowship.
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Board Progress
A 10-month
contract is being prepared for Rev. Biedler's employment. A Chalice
Lighters grant application is being prepared. The money would be
for Fellowship growth. Consideration is being given to expanding
outreach to Richland and Millikin.
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Did
You Know?
The director
of the movie "Saved" said he filmed several scenes in
a UU church when fundamentalist churches wouldn't give him access.
The film, starring Macaulay Culkin, is a humorous look at life in
a particularly boisterous church school.
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UU
Who's Who in the News
Grant Vaught
had a nice profile in the Herald & Review for the announcement
as Decatur Township organizer for U.S. Senate candidate Barack Obama.
"We're hoping to improve the environment in every way,"
Marge Evans told the H&R in June. She and other Community Environmental
Council board members gathered at Rock Springs Center to celebrate
Vision 2022, a comprehensive environmental plan for Macon County.
Also in
June, Marge was quoted in an article dealing with "freecycling."
This is a concept in which people who want to avoid throwing things
into the landfill seek out others over the Internet who might want
the item. Marge said she would see if her council was interested
in the concept.
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Welcome
To Our New Members
James Scott
Johnston
was born in Toronto, Canada. He was educated at the University of
Toronto, and was originally a flight nurse and nursing instructor.
Scott then went to the University of Florida and the University
of Illinois to obtain his master's and doctorate degrees in philosophy.
He currently teaches at the U of I, but will be teaching at Eastern
Illinois University this fall. He lives in Decatur. Scott's interests
include sports (running, tennis, hockey) and reading. His wife,
Carol Johnston, is a clinical nurse specialist at DMH, and an advanced
practice nurse. She attends St. John's Episcopal Church in Decatur.
Their son, Frank, is a fifth-grader at Stevenson School.
Sandy Dattoli
was born in Bloomington, and moved to Decatur 17 years ago after
her divorce. She has two sons: Mike, 26, who is majoring in history
at Sam Houston University in Texas, and Joe, 24 who left Millikin,
worked at Wal-Mart and now will be majoring in communications this
fall at Lake Land College. Joe is a part-time DJ at WEJT. Sandy
has been a substitute teacher in Decatur, but is looking into other
lines of work. She "absolutely loves" anything having
to do with history.
Brian Ater
grew up in and now lives in Moweaqua. He has been attending the
Fellowship for the last four years, having first read the writings
of Ralph Waldo Emerson and discovering he was a Unitarian. Brian
then saw our sign along MacArthur Road, announcing upcoming services
and decided to check us out. He says he also did considerable reading
in encyclopedias about Unitarianism and Universalism before attending.
Brian is hoping to find work here in Decatur.
By the way
An updated member and friend address list will be available in the
UUFD office the second Sunday of July! This was a combined effort
of Marge Evans, June Allison and Dick
Zaker. Also, a thank-you to Mark Sorensen for proofreading. If you
find errors, please inform June Allison.
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In a nurturing
environment of openness, mutual respect, and friendship, the Unitarian
Universalist Fellowship of Decatur is a welcoming, diverse congregation.
We share values and seek to celebrate life and support one another
in our inward and outward searches for spiritual meaning, provide
a liberal religious presence, and strive for compassion and justice
in our community and our world.
Our newsletter
is printed monthly. Dick Zaker is the editor and Jennifer
Gardner makes it available on the Web. Articles can be submitted
through e-mail at newsletter@uufd.org,
by putting them in the newsletter mailbox at UUFD, by mailing them
to him in care of the fellowship, or by leaving a phone message
for Dick at 429-1355.
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