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Newsletters & Sermons
July 2004

UUFD NOW


UUFD Rummage Sale Registers Success

An enormous thanks to Kathy Vaught and her crew for yet another great UUFD Rummage Sale (the 14th). This year, we netted more than $1,100, which will be used for expenses our Fellowship incurs in the coming year. The help of many made for a phenomenal sale. Of special note were the folks who stayed after the Memorial Day Service and helped bring
items from the attic, set up tables, unbox and sort. The help of those who contributed, worked the sale and cleaned up is much appreciated.

Moving or cleaning out?
If you find items for next year's June rummage sale as you sort through your overcrowded basements, garages and closets, box them up and store them or bring them to the Fellowship.

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Greetings from your Prez, by Marge Evans

Bouquets to Kathy Vaught for organizing and running another fantastic rummage sale. Bouquets to Vern for all his picking up and toting. And bouquets to all who helped in so many ways! Did Mark say $11,10.05!! Wow!

"Next-day" bouquets go to all who helped on our annual "Cleanup Day."

Bouquets to Terry Hogg, who took on our front garden, which has been needing TLC. Darwin and his Building & Grounds team did a fine job. Many hands made the work a "play day," and I'm proud to be a part of UUFD.

We are planning another "FUNdraiser" to help us with our visionary budget. "Books, Bites and Botanicals" is coming Saturday, Oct. 16. We picture a time for folks to browse through the "good" books we'll have to offer, while they listen to good music from our new sound system; to nibble and sip for free, but then buy tasty treats to take home with the pretty plant that will brighten their home over the winter.

Perhaps you would like to expand on this vision! Sandy Dattoli has agreed to chair this event, and Vern Thistlethwaite, Jennifer Gardner and Anne Reeser also have volunteered, so you'll be in good company!

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In John's Words

Last Tuesday during office hours, I had been asked by one of our members, Lois Worley, to help with the planning of a memorial service at the Fellowship. Our meeting was to plan her own memorial service, and it is with Lois' permission I write this column.

I considered it remarkably thoughtful that someone would want to design their own memorial service; so much so it has inspired me to do the same.

I've come to see that pre-planning one's own memorial service is a very considerate and loving act. It is one of those final gifts one gives to a grieving extended family and friends. It eliminates any guesswork as to what is appropriate to a person's life. It makes easier those
difficult and often uninformed choices survivors are often forced to make unexpectedly. And it certainly lessens the burden on the one officiating, who may not have known the person's wishes regarding such sensitive and important matters. Yes, in so many ways it is a most thoughtful and considerate gift.

Many may not find it easy discussing such things as their memorial. As Lois and I sat in the church office that afternoon I could sense those expected emotions arising as tears welled up . her voice gave way. she choked as she spoke. For me as well, it was deeply moving. As we moved through the words of the service, I could sense her relief and a kind of burden gradually being lifted. What was on the other side was a sense of joy and completion. It was simply a magnificent moment.

The service Lois selected seemed just the right words for her. She found them in a Skinner House book I had given her titled: "In Memoriam: A Guide to Modern Funeral and Memorial Services" by Edward Searls, a UU minister. The particular service she had chosen originated from a Native American tradition and was called "Circles Within Circles." It adapted the medicine wheel concept with contemporary spirituality and conveyed what
needed to be said for her. It was true to the life she was living and her love a Nature and years of volunteering at the Rock Springs Center here in Decatur.

So I invite you to consider designing your own memorial service. If not with me, then with another. To do so would be for me to deeply respect your own worth and dignity inherent as an individual. It would honor your conscience in matters of life, death and meaning.

As your minister, I would consider it a privilege and responsibility to respond to your request with care, sensitivity and love. For us both to know what words would truthfully speak your deepest beliefs would make for a service that would be at once honest as well as
honoring of the person we love.

Please feel free to call upon me at any time.
Faithfully yours,
John

Office hours
Reverend's office hours will be Tuesday afternoons, from 1- 5 p.m., except on July 6.

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Joys & Concerns

Happy birthday to ...

Linda Shroyer - July 6
John Hays - July 21
Ron Shafer - July 25

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Dollarsense

A special thanks to Vicky and Randi Clark for their donation of a gas stove for the kitchen and to Ryan Raleigh for helping Mark Sorensen with the installation. Pledgers: Please mark on your checks in July whether donation is for an old 2003-2004 pledge or new 2004-2005 pledge. Fellowship expenses average $4000 per month. Members and friends may make a tax-deductible donation of money, stocks or property to the Trust at any time of the year. If interested, please contact Ken Robertson. Much thanks to Darwin Shroyer for coordinating the replacement of our #2 air conditioner unit to cool our central pod. The cost of this will come from our UUFD Trust Fund. Thanks to Darwin and Eric Devore for replacing and repairing damaged wood siding on the Fellowship.

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Board Progress

A 10-month contract is being prepared for Rev. Biedler's employment. A Chalice Lighters grant application is being prepared. The money would be for Fellowship growth. Consideration is being given to expanding outreach to Richland and Millikin.

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Did You Know?

The director of the movie "Saved" said he filmed several scenes in a UU church when fundamentalist churches wouldn't give him access. The film, starring Macaulay Culkin, is a humorous look at life in a particularly boisterous church school.

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UU Who's Who in the News

Grant Vaught had a nice profile in the Herald & Review for the announcement as Decatur Township organizer for U.S. Senate candidate Barack Obama. "We're hoping to improve the environment in every way," Marge Evans told the H&R in June. She and other Community Environmental Council board members gathered at Rock Springs Center to celebrate Vision 2022, a comprehensive environmental plan for Macon County.

Also in June, Marge was quoted in an article dealing with "freecycling." This is a concept in which people who want to avoid throwing things into the landfill seek out others over the Internet who might want the item. Marge said she would see if her council was interested in the concept.

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Welcome To Our New Members

James Scott Johnston
was born in Toronto, Canada. He was educated at the University of Toronto, and was originally a flight nurse and nursing instructor. Scott then went to the University of Florida and the University of Illinois to obtain his master's and doctorate degrees in philosophy.
He currently teaches at the U of I, but will be teaching at Eastern Illinois University this fall. He lives in Decatur. Scott's interests include sports (running, tennis, hockey) and reading. His wife, Carol Johnston, is a clinical nurse specialist at DMH, and an advanced practice nurse. She attends St. John's Episcopal Church in Decatur. Their son, Frank, is a fifth-grader at Stevenson School.

Sandy Dattoli
was born in Bloomington, and moved to Decatur 17 years ago after her divorce. She has two sons: Mike, 26, who is majoring in history at Sam Houston University in Texas, and Joe, 24 who left Millikin, worked at Wal-Mart and now will be majoring in communications this fall at Lake Land College. Joe is a part-time DJ at WEJT. Sandy has been a substitute teacher in Decatur, but is looking into other lines of work. She "absolutely loves" anything having to do with history.

Brian Ater
grew up in and now lives in Moweaqua. He has been attending the Fellowship for the last four years, having first read the writings of Ralph Waldo Emerson and discovering he was a Unitarian. Brian then saw our sign along MacArthur Road, announcing upcoming services and decided to check us out. He says he also did considerable reading in encyclopedias about Unitarianism and Universalism before attending. Brian is hoping to find work here in Decatur.

By the way
An updated member and friend address list will be available in the UUFD office the second Sunday of July! This was a combined effort of Marge Evans, June Allison and Dick
Zaker. Also, a thank-you to Mark Sorensen for proofreading. If you find errors, please inform June Allison.

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In a nurturing environment of openness, mutual respect, and friendship, the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Decatur is a welcoming, diverse congregation. We share values and seek to celebrate life and support one another in our inward and outward searches for spiritual meaning, provide a liberal religious presence, and strive for compassion and justice in our community and our world.

Our newsletter is printed monthly. Dick Zaker is the editor and Jennifer Gardner makes it available on the Web. Articles can be submitted through e-mail at newsletter@uufd.org, by putting them in the newsletter mailbox at UUFD, by mailing them to him in care of the fellowship, or by leaving a phone message for Dick at 429-1355.